Article: Caregiver Burnout
Burnout is Real
Research has shown that as a parent – whether adoptive, foster, or biological – raising a child with an FASD can be an exhausting caregiver role.
Studies provide substantial evidence that parents of school-age and older children with intellectual and developmental disabilities experience elevated levels of stress and depressive symptoms, above that of parents of typically developing children.
An individual impacted by FASD may need substantial amounts of support and supervision. This role can be exhausting, overwhelming and unrelenting. It may cause a caregiver to ignore their own well-being which will cause burnout. Caregivers need time to reflect, rejuvenate, reenergize, and reset. Much-needed respite care helps renew caregivers.
Burnout symptoms can include:
- Tired. Stress, anxiety, or medical needs from your loved one in the middle of the night can make it difficult to get a good night’s rest.
- Reduced ability to concentrate. With so many tasks and responsibilities to manage you may find it difficult to concentrate. Brain fog makes every task more difficult.
- Mood swings. You may have minor changes in mood. You feel angry one minute and then sad and helpless moments later. Irritability also is common.
- Feeling down. You may feel alone, isolated and overwhelmed.
- Weakened immune system. Stressed caregivers are likely to catch a cold or flu virus going around.
Ask for More Support
Ask for more support: Lighten your daily load by asking for more support. When people ask what they can do to help you, have a list ready. While many caregiving tasks might be things you want to do yourself, there are plenty of chores that other people could take over, such as:
- Grocery shopping
- Taking your child to their medical appointment
Sometimes it can be difficult to accept help. When you are willing to accept help from friends and family, you are giving them an opportunity to feel good about themselves and helping yourself in the process. Even just having someone sit with your family member while you take a break can give you some time to recharge. Many communities have elder care or respite services, which can give you some time for yourself.
Many caregivers provide foster respite care 24 hours a day, seven days a week. If you can find respite and attend yoga class three times a week, that can have a positive impact on your health and wellness.
- Eat healthy foods and meal planning of time.
- Get enough sleep. Set you phone to for sleep alert.
- Go for a daily walk with a friend or if you have a dog take them on a walk.
- Take your medications as prescribed. Implement daily vitamins.
- Keep preventive medical appointments.
- Spend some quality time with friends and family.
- See your doctor when you are sick.
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3 Clark MM (expert opinion). Mayo Clinic, Rochester, Minn. June 20, 2017.
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